YIELD!

For, in the society we live in, we are trained to save and to hold on to, basically, we are taught to keep secrets. There is an old saying we have used so many times, and it says,” do not let one hand know, what the other hand is doing.” This saying, teaches us how to be selfish. For, the word of the Lord declares, “he that holds unto his corn, the people shall curse him. However, blessings shall be upon the head of him who sell it. So, as we can see through the word of God when there is an act of holding on to something and not sharing with others, there will come a curse. And, now that I have explained the negative result of holding on to a thing, for this constitutes a type of selfishness. Now here is the point, I would like to share, beloved, let me direct my thoughts into the direction of relationships. In the union between couples, the problems men and women have been taught since the fall of man is to fight against one another, to see who is the strongest mentally instead of love. For to Love simply means for you to stop trying to hide your true weakness from your partner, and surrender your all. For, the root of this division is power. Even so stated, in the Garden of Eden where the Serpent told Eve if she would partake of the tree of good and evil, she would not die but be as God. This is the place where in both parties think to gain control and receive this power. For the woman says,” if I show him this vulnerable side of me, he will think I am weak, and he will take advantage of me, and treat me like a dog, or slave”. Next, the man will say,” if I tell her my most intimate feelings and thoughts, she will think I am weak. She will take advantage of my weakness and not look at me as a man and use my weakness against me later.” Let me stay on the man for a minute. Many men as a child have been raised to think, if I cry my woman will think I am weak. The devil is a liar! What men have failed to realized, they are forever, trying to think what their woman might think but never allowing them the chance to think and respond for themselves. And truth of the matter Man! What you think your woman thinks about you is the total opposite of how she really feels. In your mind, you may think she hates you but actually, she may just be hurt, because you did not take the time to notice, how much she really loves you. For, things that you are trying to hide from her through your bad teaching is the trick of the devil. You think when you show her your heart and even your weaknesses as a man, that she will judge you. But I declare unto you, her position as your help mate, is to love, and be an instinctive supply, to those areas you need help in. For, as men, we have been taught, that only we cover our wives, as Christ covers us as the Priest. But, what we fail to realize, our wives are our covering as well. A fact, our wives are our ribs. For, if we did not have ribs, we would not be able to function. We would die, from bacteria, pollution and by having a large hole in our side. Therefore, we must conclude that if our ribs have become irritated, we must know that there is something wrong in our body. Now, let me talk to the women. Ladies, it is also important for you to understand, without having a body, the ribs cannot function by itself. For, you know all the ins and outs of your man, His pattern thoughts how he respond, when he is happy or angry. So, instead of becoming angry with him, by shutting down with strong body language, especially, when he cannot understand the things you are thinking. Please talk to him! Express to him that you have studied him and you really know how he feels. Love that man, as only you can. Tell him, to stop trying to be so secretive, by not sharing his weaknesses because the truth of the matter, you know them all. Stop! Playing the waiting game, by sending clues that you know him, just tell the man! Save him from all that trouble and changes. Instead of letting him go through those changes, he could be using that energy to love on you. Yes! I know you feel un appreciated by him. And you may even feel taken advantage of, at times. You may feel he is trying to hold you back. You may feel that you are qualified to do any thing, he can do. Yes! You may feel more intelligent than he may. All these things may or may not be true. However, the way, you are going about it, the word of God, speaks against you. For the word of God, tell us to be ye separated, from Babylon because of her sin, not your spouse. Did not God tell you, not to let anyone separate you and him. For, when you go about it your way, by teaching that man a lesson, it only will put you against God Holy Scriptures. And your greater power will come from your connection, not separation. Yes! Men are more external and women are internal. Teach him your gift, for it is your job to teach him, because in your obedience God will bless you, and your whole household. For completeness is in him becoming empty, open, sharing his deepest thoughts. For, what he thinks as a weakness will become his and your completeness, strengthen as a couple, and you will obtain the favor of the Lord. Which means, once a union has the favor of God over their marriage, there is a certain access God allows them to receive out of his secret place. For, there are specific revelations from the mind of God, that he will allow be un fold. And this only will come through the man becoming naked, in his heart, before his wife, for this is the will of God concerning you.